When it comes to signs that your ex is ready to make up, one of the first things to know is that sometimes she doesn’t even know it herself. There are many subconscious things your ex will do with words, actions, and even body language that will indicate that they are giving you the green light. Knowing what these things are and when they happen can be key to getting an ex girlfriend back. The list below contains some of the more promising indications that you are on the way to getting it back:
Your ex keeps in touch with you – Any girl who breaks up with you and really means that she will eventually disappear from your life. Even if she easily disappointed you and gave you the “let’s be friends” speech … if she’s not interested, you’ll eventually lose touch with her. If you have an ex-girlfriend who is in constant contact with you, it is always a good sign. This could be over the phone or face-to-face contact, or it could be done with text messages or emails if you’re trying to hide this communication from your friends (or even a new boyfriend). Either way, that she wants to talk to you is always a good sign.
Your ex girlfriend asks to meet you – Texting and emails from your ex are fine, but when she wants to meet you for lunch or coffee, there is usually something behind it. Even if she doesn’t have anything specific to say to you, she’s probably watching your own body language and seeing how you react to being around her. Any ex who keeps the lines of communication that open has still left the door to their relationship open a bit … in case she decides to change her mind. Keep your conversation upbeat and fun, and make her always happy to see you. After a while, things will get more personal.
She begins to inquire about her own situation – This is a tremendous sign that your ex doesn’t want you to move on. Yes, she broke up with you. Yes, I might even have wished you luck finding someone new. But was he serious? No way. No woman wants to see her ex boyfriend dating another girl, especially if she hasn’t moved in yet. What you are doing here is probing to see what kinds of circumstances are going on in your own personal life. As friendly as it sounds, she isn’t asking in a friendly way – she’s asking like an ex-girlfriend, one who would rather see you single.
Suddenly he changes his attitude towards you – After a breakup, your ex might treat you with child gloves. You will probably keep some distance between you, even through contact, and be aware that you are not trying to guide you. But then all of a sudden … he gets emotionally close again. She starts to compliment you and show you affection, and she may get really flirtatious all at once. This is a great sign that your ex wants you back. Something has changed in his own life or in his attitude towards you. Roll with it and see where it leads.